The Story of How We Sold Our Van!


Sometimes things just work out so cool and so right. Such is the story of how we sold our van.

For some odd reason, Ben and I have this gift, well really we have an awesome family, but our gift is that we have various family members that leave the country and leave us a car. It's happened twice to us now. We were given/bought a van at a great price from Ben's sister's family several years back and my dad left to do work in London for 3 years and asked us to watch over his car. At several times in our marriage, we have discussed going down to one car to save money and all of a sudden we have 3 cars. We contemplated keeping all  3 cars but we just don't have the room or money to do that at this time in our life. So that brought us to selling a car. We love our Ford Explorer- the first car I bought by myself! And, we needed to keep my dad's car for when he returns to the United States, so it wasn't that hard of a decision. We put the van up for sale on Craigslist and got several hits right away. We made the mistake of putting OBO (Or Best Offer) on the listing and we got some offers, but they were crummy. One lady offered us a whole $1500 less and when you're selling your car for $3500 that is a lot off and not a best offer at all. We worked with 4 people and decided that we needed to pull the listing and start over. However, Ben did not pull the listing because he didn't sign in with craigslist, and therefore did not know how to delete it. A week or so went by and for some reason I thought Ben did delete it because we didn't get any calls. During that week, we decided that we were going to actually try to keep 3 cars after all. That was until I got the call. Well, we got lots more calls, but I ignored most of them, except this one call. To be honest, I have no clue why I answered this call. I just did. This call ended up being from a pastor in Pueblo. He asked me some more details about car, and I decided to be up front with him and tell him that the car is actually $3500 firm. You know what he said? He told me that was just fine because he had exactly $3500 to spend. Can you believe that? Even though I didn't want to sell the car all by myself; however, I ended up selling it because Ben had to work and the pastor and another gentlemen came down the same day we spoke on the phone and purchased the car. All in one day- fabulous! 

The story about the family who bought the car is even cooler than actually selling the van, although I am not complaining about selling the  van. This pastor sent out an email to his congregation on a Monday and raised exactly $3500 for a car for single mom of 5 going through a divorce. She was currently in a custody battle and the judge told the lady the only way that she was able to keep her kids with full custody was to have a working, reliable car that would hold her entire family. Amazing that our van ended up being someone's miracle car to keep her kids. And, the congregation raised that much money in 2 days, they came down and bought the car on a Wednesday. That is how a church family should be! How neat is that!?

Operation Catch Up: Christmas Time!

Christmas with Rachel's family!
spent with my mom and chris
 
 Christmas with Ben's family!
spent with the spiers' family, jo, gg, and billie
 
Woohoo for Christmas fun! The kids were kind of overwhelmed at first but then got the hang of opening presents, eating copious amounts of food, listening to joyful music, and enjoying time with the family!


Operation Catch Up: Christmas Party!


Happy kiddos playing and enjoying a local community Christmas party. They particularly loved the golf game- taking after their daddy!

Operation Catch Up: Christmas Tree Decorating!

Christmas tree decorating was so fun this year. Both kids loved helping out! Alivia was the lucky pick of putting the star on top of the tree. The picture on the lower left is one of my favorites. Pure joy!

Operation Catch Up: Thanksgiving 2012!

 
The Thanksgiving season of 2011, I posted something I was thankful for each day in November. This past Thanksgiving, I didn't get a chance to do that because I was without a computer. We were staying at Ben's mom's house due to the house incident. Yuck. My overall thankful them of Thanksgiving 2012 is cliché, but it's true. I was most thankful for God's love and my family's super awesome support and help during our crisis. We are forever thankful for all the help we received during that time in our life. I am without-a-doubt beyond thankful today that we are in our house now and living our normal day-to-day life, but I know that I learned a lot during that time. This was the first year since being together that Ben and I spent our Thanksgiving days a part. He traveled to help my dad with his big London move, and I stayed home with the kids. Our actual Thanksgiving day was spent at my mom's house. We enjoyed our time with my mom and brother, ate some yummy food, and the kids had a blast! Ben enjoyed his Thanksgiving day with my dad's side of the family. He had a great time with my dad and road tripping from California to Las Vegas to Colorado. Here are a few pictures of our day here in Colorado
 


And She Said (Cat Talk)!

Alivia really wants her Sniffs back and she asked if we can get him back or get another cat. When I told her no because Nolan is allergic, she said "well, maybe we can get rid of Nolan and then get another cat".

Oh the thinking of a 3 year old! We talked about how we couldn't get rid of Nolan and how we would all miss him. I also told her that we can probably get a cat or dog when they get older, and she seemed satisfied with that answer. :)

Purposeful Planning: Assigned Chores for Me?!


So as I child, I was assigned chores. It worked. I didn't like it, but I got completed the chores assigned to me because it was my responsibility. If I didn't complete my chores, I had consequences.

I need assigned chores today, and I need to figure out consequences if I don't complete my chores. It worked when I was younger. Will it work again?! I hope so. :) I plan to re-complete my chore list and figure out different ideas of consequences and/or privileges.

Here's to phase 2 of purposeful planning!!